“Growing up,” she told me, “is learning to stop believing people’s words about you.”
– Lulu Miller, Why Fish Don’t Exist
There comes a quiet shift in adulthood — not just the gaining of responsibilities, but the gradual unlearning of the stories others have told us about who we are. Their labels, judgments, even their praise — all of it forms a shell that isn’t always ours to carry. Growing up, in the truest sense, might be the moment we realize we are not the sum of others’ perceptions, but something far more fluid, complex, and unfinished.
We begin to rewrite the narrative from the inside out.
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